If your profile comes across as too sophisticated, we’re afraid you’re going to make us sell our Xbox One on e Bay. Put fun key words in your profile to get us on the hook, then you can switch the game up once we’re dating and we won't even notice that we’re apple picking with you on the weekends.” –James, 42"I met a woman who didn't have a profile photo and neither did I, but she mentioned she loved a city I recently visited and loved too.
Once I realized that our interests and travels mimicked each others, I had to immediately message her to find out more." –John, 30RELATED: The Worst Online Dating Messages Ever What He Thinks About You Reaching Out First“If a girl messages me first, that's definitely attractive.
You don’t have to overhaul your strategy based off of these guys' thoughts, but if you’re in a rut, take some tips right from the stallion’s mouth.“When you have too many pictures with family members, it makes us think you’re going to drag us to family functions early on.
Balance the family photos with you doing something fun—like hanging out at a stadium—so I have a better idea of what our time together will be like.” –James, 42“If the woman’s photos are only with friends, I automatically think she is shy and insecure about her looks.
I would like to see a confident picture of her by herself doing something she loves.
If you say you like ‘a guy who doesn't take himself too seriously,’ this gives me insight into your personality.” –Dan, 32“I like when her profile shows a little sarcasm and spunk.
Sarcasm can show that the girl doesn’t take herself or life too seriously.
One girl’s profile that made me laugh said she was seeking a ‘rock star chef to search the infinite abyss with.And if you can make a red velvet cake, well, that’s pretty sexy, too.’” “Most men are basically children.That gives me something to talk about.” –Javier, 30“Women that have pictures of themselves doing stupid and dorky things are always a plus to me—it shows a “I like a more natural photo, just the beautiful girl and her vibrant smile.That tells me she’s not trying too hard and that she knows what’s important in her life.” –Carlo, 37RELATED: 10 Tips to Look Great in Every Photo What He Thinks About Your Profile“Everyone’s profile says they love travel, animals, trying new foods, and that they are giving online dating a try.If you sound like everyone else, I’m going to think you didn’t put any thought into your profile.The best profiles are short and convey that a girl is open-minded.” –Will, 31“I would bypass a profile if a woman's profile said that a guy ‘needs to make me laugh.’ Don’t just tell me what you need a guy to do for you—emphasize the traits you find most attractive.